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*anielle0801
writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for 9months and weve had a lot of arguements and fights. he says im a bad gf but all ive been doin is trying to make our relationship work. everytime we have a disagreement he never lets me say how i feel. he told me if things dont change were breaking up. i dont want to do that because i love him and he loves me but i just want to make this work but i dont know what to do. please any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 I'm going through something similar at the minute. In a relationship both people have to work at things, even if the problem seems to lie with just one person the relationship dynamics need to change, attitudes need to be adjusted so I would have a big conversation with your partner and sort out everything before you move forward. X
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reader, fubr +, writes (20 June 2009):
first of all there are people all over the world that love each other to death but just cant be together..believe me i had a 16 year marriage that was just that...there is a very fine line between love and hate and always remember that...and second if he will not let you express how you are feeling now if its anger, fear, sadness, or whatever honey hes not going to allow you to express your feelings ever.. now the hard part is to figure out what the argueing is about is it worth it?? is it just silly crap?? or is it something that truly means something to one of you or both of you?? a relationship is extremely hard work for both parties and they both have to play there part...hope this helps.. but please make a promise to yourself now..always always express your feelings to whoever you are with. its your right and if they love you and deserve you then your feelings will be just has important as theirs...
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