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writes: I know this waiter and he always goes out of his way to talk to me and my family. I think he is interested but he never ask me out yet. The last time we saw him we were not even in his section and he was off work but came over to talk he sat at the booth right behind ours and was talking to me. He even touched my shoulders a few times. I think maybe he wants to ask me out but is afraid to do it infront of my family. How can I get him alone So he can ask me out? It's not like we can be alone I could make a restroom break and walk slow. Or ask to see his new car he said he just bought but I don't think his work will let him just walk outside. I realy want him to ask me out. But how? I would be too embaresed myself to ask him out infront of my family. Someone please help me brain storm a way do get him alone. Or am I just going to have to look embaresed in front of my family? Oh the hook up is always the hardest part! Thanx for any advice Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 As Tremor says , go into the restaurant by yourself. Good grief! wouldnt that be obvious? Ahhh, what love does to us eh..makes us obvlious to the most obvious signs.
He is probably waiting for you to come in by yourself, there is no way he will ask you out in front of your family ( I wouldnt! ).
So next time, put something nice on and go do some flirting, if he is interested ( and the touchy shoulder stuff is a big indicator he is!) then I'm sure the invitation will come soon enough.
Just make sure he's working when you do!
good luck !
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reader, Tremor +, writes (8 July 2008):
 Try going into the restaurant on your own, perhaps? Drop in for some lunch when you know he'll be working, or pop by when you know his shift will be ending and 'bump into him' as he comes out.
Or maybe slip him your number next time he comes to talk to you and your family - write it on a bit of paper and stick it in his apron. Just make sure he sees it so it doesn't go through the wash! Soggy phone numbers are rarely accurate, haha.
Good luck on your mission.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): i guess try the restroom thing but if i were you i would just ask in front of the fam... or go there without your family. if its meant to be, it will happen.
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