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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My fiance and I are going through a very difficult time financially. We have NO relationship with each other whatsoever. He blames it on stress. We sleep in seperate bedrooms (aparently, that way he can "stretch out" much better). We hardly talk and when we do, it's about work. Our son was born 5 months ago, and I'm trying really hard to get back into shape - I only need to lose 9 kilos (so obviously I blame it on that). We hardly make love and when we do, it feels like it's a job for him. I've also started my own business, which is really going great. Is my relationship falling appart? Does he see me being the breadwinner for a while as a threat? Should I seek counselling? I'm going out of my mind....
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 It's unbelievable the amount of damage financial problems can have on a relationship but the key to it is keep talking i think it would probably be very worth you getting financial advice as well as both visiting your gp and discussing every thing with them, you have a young child so please don't throw everything away over money life is too short. Once you have recieved the medical backup and financial you will be amazed how much it will change your relationship trust me i've been there.
Take care.xx.
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