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writes:been goin out with my gf for 6 years now.had baby boy 4 years ago.since than(and duringshe just doesn't want it 9 months of pregnancy)there has been no sex in our relationship.she just doesn't want.not just sex,no kissing or hugs.this as you can guess cause big problems.she says she still loves me i just don't know anymore.please help.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Sometimes when you have children it is very easy to loose sight of each other, what with work, daily chores looking after the children it's difficult for you to find time for you you could try getting someone to have your boy for the weekend and book yourselves into a hotel just spend some time just the two of you and try to rediscover each other.
Take care.xx.
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reader, kenny +, writes (13 June 2007):
 It sounds like the spark has gone out of your relationship,however it sounds like she does still love you. Why don't you do something really romantic for her, maybe book a table at a nice resturant, and tell how much you love her and how much she is appreciated. Sometimes it just takes one person to put the spark back into a realtionship.
All the best
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (13 June 2007):
 I can understand the no sex whilst pregnant as I'm currently pregnant myself and my sex drive has taken a dive. Is she suffering from postnatal depression at all?
My sister had a baby last September and her sex life dropped to the point where we thought that her and her partner wouldnt last. In the end it turned out she was suffering with the baby blues and was just too tired. She also had a very bad labour and it took her a while to get over.
Four years sounds a long time but if she isn't feeling right then maybe you should sit and talk to her and try and find out why her sex drive has dropped so low, and maybe suggest seeing a doctor.
I know before I found out I was pregnant and my sex drive dropped it caused issues but me and my partner chatted about it and we kind of came to an understanding. Sometimes I dont feel in the hugging mood. I find that quite odd as I'm quite a huggy person.
Good luck
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