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writes: A guy at college kept looking at me with no emotion--i never knew what to do, so i did the same. This went on for about three months I got tired of the game and so i ignored him (but i still noticed him), i started to hang around with my male friends and one day he saw me and my friend laughing. I never saw him for a couple of things and when i did see him again i went and sat in front of him--to smile, he ignored me in a real blatant way. Everytime he sees me he ignores me and does not even look at me even though he can see me, he looks angry and emotionless. Once he walked right past me and prentended like i never existed. What should i do..i have tried to rekindle things--how should i act when he behaves like that--has he moved on--Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Right you have too options here. Option 1 is to continue to behave like a strange and deranged stalker getting off on a guy from afar. Option 2 is to go and introduce yourself to him and find out what his name is. Then you will be able to tell from his reaction what he thinks.
There is nothing to *rekindle* because he is someone you admired form afar!!
Go and be brave and say hello, who knows when you do you might get over this crush and see him for a total dork......x
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Good grief, how clear a message does he have to give you for you to realise he really is not interested.
find a bloke that is interested in being with you and knows you are on the planet.
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reader, MarthaZ +, writes (6 March 2006):
 You want to rekindle... what? Staring competition? You don't want to get to know someone who only stares, do you? There's plenty of other people who can talk as well as look at you too! Act like you don't care, don't let him get to you! There's more to it than staring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): What things are you trying to rekindle? According to what you've written you have no relationship to this person - have you even talked to him? And if he's always staring at you angrily and with no emotion, are you really inclined to get to know him better? He sounds goddamned scary!
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