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writes:i was with my boyfriend for three years and we got married on the 7th june this yr beleive it or not. wat a joke. i had a bad arguement i told him i didnt love him and kicked him out, but i lied i do love him i just said it in anger. now his gone for 6 weeks met someone come back twice and gave his marriage ago for the weekend and told me he has no feelings for me and went back to this girl. but at that weekend he told me he loved me so much. he has three kids with previous and i have two from previous. his kids adore me like i adore them. he took his kids to his girlfriends house which killed me.there going there chrismas evening and boxing day. his a type of bloke that cant be on his own. he told me today he still has feelings for me and that for me to move on with my life. he said he feels guilty which i think is crap, and that he is hurting which is rubbish. im the one that should be hurting. i gave him a chance to save our marriage. he decided to leave just like that. i thought the man adored and loved me. we was together all the time we was inseperable. i wish i could turn it all around and to have never thrown him out. god im hurting so much. plus i lied and said i was with someone now to hurt him. but he said to be happy thanks donna [Moderator's note: More details about the argument you had are needed.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): It probably was a mistake to tell him you didn't love him, but it was also a mistake on his part to leave for 6 weeks and find someone new! If he really loved you, he would have left for a while to cool off and then come back to work things out with you. So don't feel this is 100% your fault. He definitely has some responsibility to accept in this.
I think you just need to let him go. It was his choice to not come back and unfortunately you have to accept that and move on. I'm so sorry.
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