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writes:I got engaged to my fiance 6 weeks ago. We used to have sex fairly regularly, 3 - 4 times a week, but now I'm lucky if I get to have any at all.Lately he's been spending more and more time at the local fast food joints, and every time I try and have sex with him, he flat out refuses.I've tried everything to seduce him but he still persists in going out late at night to fast food joints, Pizza Huts, McDonalds etc.I've tried discussing the issue with him but he whitewashed it and accused me of being nasty to him,.I feel upset, stressed and unhappy.help me please!!hailey
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 This is meant to be a very happy time in your life but instead you are feeling stressed and unhappy. This behaviour seems very odd and he needs to explain it to you.I think you have every right to be worried. If he wont talk to you and explain things tell him that you will leave. If he still doesnt open up you then have to make the decision to stay or go.
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reader, Farris  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 If he's making you upset, stressed and unhappy, then you HAVE to tell him this, and if he doesn't recognise that, then he is out of line.
If he simply doesn't care about how he's making you feel then you shouldn't be with such a man. Sorry, that I have no better news for you, but you have to recognise this.
You should sit him down and have a proper conversation about this, ask him why he's been hanging out at fast food joints and why you've stopping having sex. There must be some kind of reason for these things, and you need to find out why; it's your business because it's hurting you. Your fiancé should recognise this.
If he's not willing to make any kind of effort on behalf of your happiness, then you really need to question if you want to marry such a man.
Good luck and best wishes.
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