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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend a year and a half together, there were always periods of detachment. A week ago we felt really in love. And suddenly now I feel an extraordinary distance. We talked about it and he feels the same. I'm afraid of losing him. I do not know if the right thing is to stop or continue working on the connection. But how many periods would we have more? Until now there were plenty! I love him and he loves me. Should we insist? Or should we finaly learn to give up??
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (26 October 2011):
If these periods of alternatingly hot and cold feelings towards one another have occurred with some regularity throughout the duration of your relationship it is entirely possible that the 'love' you feel towards one another is actually an intense, pheromone-based sexual attraction. These feelings become intense while a woman is experiencing the fertile duration of her monthly cycle and dissipate when that time has passed.
If this seems to be the case with your relationship, It means the attraction you have towards one another, the 'love' you feel towards one another is really more lust.
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