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36-40,
*arla v.
writes:We fight so often about the dumbest things! First of all, the things he has to say about me and how im messing up our relationship is myspace he wants my password to see who i talk to blah blah blah this and that cause according to him i have a secret life going on he get upset when i talk to guys that i've known for a very long time that i never had had nothing to do with as far as liking them or ever wanted to get with. i show him most of the time whats going on on stupid myspace which is really nothing just keeping in touch with family and friends since i dont have a phone. i know cause he's done it before is write a random friend on my page an pretend its me and say things like (so whats up when are we gunna kick it) i refuse to give him my password or delete my page i dont see why i should. honestly maybe i would of been deleted my myspace is he wasnt so fucked up with me he wont even let me make a call on his cell phone cause he says i might snoop his business ok i respect that even tho its fucked up i cant even make a call. ok the times when i get mad is because he would really start a fight so i'd leave him alone. he is addicted to porn he much rather jack off than to have sex with me. wow ok lets stop wats a relationship if there is no sex what would make him think thats fine with me alot of the time thats why im mad cause he wont give me any. its not because im bad looking im cute pretty face 5.5 tall weight 130 pounds curly long haid light brown eyes not to mention how much i help him and do his laundry clean his house im a very good girlfriend and mom we have a 3 year old b u t full girl. so when we talk what bothers me he thinks its stupid i shouldnt trip about porn.its not porn im triping on its him he wont pay any attention to me. maybe im over reacting but i feel much different i see a problem an i dont like it what can i do i know he loves me but im not happy im tired of his bullshit. i left him or a year i went up to sf i was actually happy did worry about what he had going on down south. he makes me wanna leave again but i really want this relationship to work as much as he does i cant put my finger on it wtf is it that we just cant get along with each other, i know its the drugs he likes meth, meth and porn i guess go together. his not one of those fucked up people he owns his pool business that i also help him with... idk people what those my story sound like to you is it me, him, both. why can we just be happy i think its him but he says its me im just going crazy thinking about it
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reader, luckystars88 +, writes (9 September 2009):
holy shit i cant believe someone has the same issue as i do.. ive been married just over a year and my relationship with him is going down the toilet. he isnt so into porn or drugs but he pays absolutely no attention to my wants or needs or fears and thinks that everything in my phone is his business and that he should have the right to investigate everything and if i dont let him i must be cheating. wtf is up with that?? best advice i can give you is if your not happy dont try too hard to make it work. regardless of the reason if you cant get along with someone its not gonna work and its not worth being miserable. sometimes ppl having no trust in their significant other is a result of a guilty conscious. especially if he is secretive but still wants to snoop into your shit... i'd be careful with that. but seriously if your not happy get out.. as much as im sure your little girl loves you both its really hard on a kid to grow up in a home where the parents arent happy together. If your issues can be worked out then thats awesome and go for it. but after so long you cant be the only one trying to fix things. if he doesnt work at his issues too then it wont be resolved... i have no idea if that helped.. but best of luck, i know how hard it is but just try to make yourself happy and if bein with him is right it will work out without so much conflict.. if not then move on and be happy. happiness is one thing that its ok to be selfish with.
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