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writes: i really dont know what to do! i have been going out with a guy i love now for 7 months and i was soo stupid we where at school and we where kissing. everybody does it :s. and we got really caried away ((i know dumb thing to do)) We ended up in the girls toilets in one of the cubicals and all of a sudden, 2 teachers burst in. they had seen us on the camera and seen what was happening. they came to us and asked us what was going on and i went bright red i didnt know where to put my face. nothing actually happened but it might have done. anyway we got a big lecture and they phoned my mum. my mum has gone mad and she has grounded me. she has told me i am not allowed to see him again and i have to dump him. i tried telling her that i didnt do anything but shes convinced i did!!. what can i do. i really love james but i dont know what to do. I've been so stupid.. can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Hey girl! I understand how you must be feeling right now but don't feel guilty. You just didn't do anything wrong. It happens that you often get carried away. And about leaving that guy James I think that you should wait for this matter to cool down and then talk to one of your parents whome you are closer to. Your parents care for you and were probably acting like that because they think that you are still small. How old are you and are their only child?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Hi Sweetie, I am sorry that you went through embarassement like that, it must be aweful but worst things happen to people in life.You are not a bad person but you are quite young.Your parents must be scared out of their wits, and thinking the worst. Any parent would react like that, it's only becasue they want whats best for you.
Love is a beautiful thing and being inlove is even more beautiful, I know how much you love James,but your parents are afraid that you may have sex with this guy again and that you may become pregnant. You know sweetheart, these things are one of a parent worst nightmare. Maybe you will see james at school again. Whenever you can, talk to your mum or dad and tell them the truth and how you feel about this guy. Let them know that they could trust you, and please try to listen to them. I am really sorry that you are hurting here. Pray, talk to God, he listens when nobody else does.....believe me. Just tell him how you feel as you would tell your best friend. Talk to him every day. take care and best wishes to you.
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