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30-35,
*ark_coco102
writes:Hi, ok so I have a problem. A couple of months ago this guy contacted me through the Internet. now this was not throught a dating site, it was a site just to play random games on. I didn't think it was a problem because I talked to people all the time on the site. I'm always safe though ever giving out too much info about myself. when we first started talking I had a boyfriend who is now my ex. this guy, let's call him John asked me if I had anyone. at this time I was madly in love with my ex. so I told him I had someone who loved me with all their heart (I was really wrong). anyway so after my ex and I broke up I had told him. I guess that give him the okay to start making is move on me. now it wasn't bad at first it was just small talk and I didn't think anything bad of it. so I ended up giving him my email. that's when he really started making his move. he has never been dirty with me (thank god). he is very persisent, sweet, and really chessy. saying things like I'm his every breath and things like that.I don't know how I should feel about all this and he told me that he loved me. now I know nothing about this guy but where he lives. and he knows nothing about me but my name.my gut is telling me that if I choose to start something with John I could get raped or killed. then on the other hand I believe that I'm just not letting myself open up to other guys because of my bad break up.I want to know what I can do to find out if John really cares about me...or loves me as he puts it. I already told him that I thought it was all fake. he came up with some chessy stuff telling me how it wasn't fake, but it was cute. I'm having a hard time figuring out what I should do about him. cause i know that what I'm doing can be very dangerous if I don't handle it the right way, or choose the right path. can anyone out there help me?
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reader, dark_coco102 +, writes (5 July 2010):
dark_coco102 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes I know it's creepy and risky. and like I said I haven't giving anything about myself away but my name. I would never give out my number online that's not a safe thing to do. and meting him?! heck no! I am not even 18 yet (I will be in a few days). but dying is not on the top of my to do list at this moment. if I met him there could be a chance that he could kill me. I not taking that risk.
I knew something was off about this whole thing, but I couldn't be too sure he was just so nice. just to let everyone know that I DO want to email him back but I haven't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): This situation has RED FLAGS all over it. Don't meet him, and quit talking to him. Anyone who says the LOVE you without knowing you is off. Don't give him any information that would allow him to find you, and change your email and telephone numbers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): i'd steer well clear of anyone who said they loved me and didnt know anything about me/hadnt met me. that's creepy !
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (5 July 2010):
It sounds too risky too me i say just move on its like you said he knows nothing about you so if you cut contact theres no way he could keep on harrassing you like coming to your door or whatever
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