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writes:So here is my problem: I am still in love with my ex boyfriend whom i dated two years ago. We only dated for a few months and i broke up with him because i felt like he wasnt opening up to me. Well he suggested to remain friends when we broke up and stupidly i agreed. For the past two years i havent gotten over him and i have tried to get him back by making silly CDs for him and even asking him a few times to get back with me. Our whole "friendship" has been a joke though, of course we hooked up at the beginning and hung out. Now it consists of sleepovers, and although it has been almost a year since we stopped having sex, he still insists on cuddling and holding hands and an occasional kiss on his part. I am so confused on how he feels bcause i believe he still loves me (he has admitted)but do not understand why he doesnt want to be with me again. WHat should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lotfor your advice, i really appreciate it...i guess i let him because deep down i still want him too, believe me ive tried everything to get over him but nothing helps.
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reader, Ronnie.x.  +, writes (5 July 2010):
Ive had the same problem, in my eyes he's just messing you about, leadding you on and really its not fair on you and your feelings. when he next wants you to kiss him, hug him or hold hand (its all on his terms) it may hurt to say but you need to say no and put your foot down, but gently so that he'll know you dont want to be messed around anymore, and lay it all down with him and how YOU feel. :) Good Luck x
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