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writes: I have been going out with this girl for 1 year and a half. We don't do anything, but both want to. The reason for this is she waits for me to make the first move, yet I don't really have the guts and am afraid of screwing up. How could I manage this? Reply to this Question
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (20 June 2005):
 If you really love her, then you shouldnt be afraid of screwing up when you know that she should not judge you. and if she really loved you, she would not judge you. and you shouldnot be afraid to show the love that you have for her. you should comfortable doing anything with her, basically. if not, then i doubt that the two of you have a very good relationship going on.and it seems to me that if you two dont do "anything" then you guys act more as friends, then as your going out. i would not continue going out with this chick. if she cant do anything herself, then she probably does not feel exactly comfortableas well. break it off!!!!!!! good luck~Robin~aka advice gurl
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2005): Well if you both want to then you already know what the answer is - go for it! You need to talk to her about it. Ask her where she would like the relationship to go and that you really want to express your love for her. I know it's a difficult subject to talk about ( I presume you mean sex??) but you really need to let her know. She is just as afraid as you and maybe she's unsure if you want to go further. Once you have talked about it, things will be much easier. You will both know where you stand. The best advice I can give is not to think about it too much. Just say it to her and then take things from there. Good luck!
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