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writes:hello.im 14. i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months. he has been sweet and text messages me like really often. even if his just saying, good moring darling. or, darling what are you doing now. he is just really sweet,but definitely not much flattery,as compared to the messages my friend receives from her boyfriend. but recently, about 2 weeks ago, he completely did not message me for 2 days. initially i was pissed then i got worried. when he finally replied, all he told me was that his phone had no battery and sry. he later added that he was at a friend's party and did not sleep for 2 whole days. but i could not understand. i mean i did not feel okay and good about it.somehow.and now, we barely talk. no text messages or calls. for 3 days. last time,when we did not talk or text message each other for a few hours,he would tell me he misses me.and the other time,when we had an argument, he said he missed me a lot cause we did not talk for a day.but now,everything is different. when i tell him over the phone,i miss you.he just replies okay. i dont get it. what could be happening in our relationship? i love him but i dont get it. but lately,i feel like im coping just as well without him. though i miss him,it just does not seem to be as strong as before.i just called him a couple of hours ago,he did not answer. but within a min,he text messaged me and said sry,he had to study. his mom was with him. (he's 14 too.and our parents do not know bout our relationship). i miss him. but i just feel different when i text message him. it just seems different from the past. in the past, i could be smiling to my phone,but now my expression emotionless.i dont know what is happening!
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reader, WiiFeyTooBex0  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 well you should as k him why he dosent ask you or talk to you as much as he should and why dosent your parents know about your realtion ship and do yall trust each other if yall do then he will call you know but if he sont call yo uthen dont waste your time if je dosent treat you the way that you want him to then dont talk to him and dont worry yourself about it you know its just a feelinf it will pass i promise but keep your head up and everything will get better
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reader, PreciousGemx  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Ive been through this. So ino exactly what youre going through. Its better too end it really or talk it through. Cos chances are hes going too turn out dumping you and telling everyone you cheated. Then he might call you a couple of names and want you back within a week cos he realises he is missing something. And he could possibly tell you that. But its shit. He just wants someone.
Sorry love x
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