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writes:ok this is a question about people in general, i have a real problem letting people into my life, i dunno why i just find it difficult, but lately there has been this girl who iv really gotten on well with and talk to her about stuff thats more personal and it has been mutually decided that we are best friends. We did have a bit of history but both decided that we wouldnt go anywhere with it at least for now. I said i don't want a gf right now and she said she doesn't want a boyfriend, lately tho she's been "seeing" this other guy and im led to believe that they are going out, she hasn't told me anything and even told me that she wouldn't go out with him in the past. My problem isn't that im jelous its just that i dunno if i can really trust her (and as mentioned letting people into my life is very hard so it would suck if one of the few people i do just changes on me). Another point is that in the last few weeks she has changed in some ways that i can't seem to shake. I need some opinions on whether she is worth all this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Omg this sounds just like my situation.Basically, shes probably like in love with you, but doesn't think you feel the same, seen as you just wanted to be mates.Shes going out with this other boy to make you buck up your ideas and see what you're missing.Tell her how you feel, and I know its hard, but let her into your life, because she wants to be there =] Good luck
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reader, minaah +, writes (5 June 2007):
Well, it is obvious you have feelings for her. Don't let it pass up. Go for it, man. xxxx
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