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We dated, she said she liked me as a friend, we slept together then she bolted!

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Question - (21 June 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2006)
A male , *az2450 writes:

I have been friends with a girl who is 15 years younger than myself (25) for the past 6 months. When we first met she told me that she didn't find me attractive and wouldn't ever love me, but liked me as a friend.

However, during the last 2 months we have been having a sexual relationship and a few weeks ago (with her prompting) we had intercourse for the first time. Although she said that she didn't regret it, the next day she told me she didn't want it to happen again (I said it was fine by me) but has completely kicked me out of her life, and gone out with another guy, but still wants to be friends with me - I feel used.

I was told by her that she has never been loved like this before and that she finds it difficult to cope with. Don't know what to do for the best?

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A female reader, shortie6200 +, writes (21 June 2006):

shortie6200 agony auntwell lets see it does sound like you've been used. and also sounds like she's unstable with her life at the moment. other than that the only thing I could say is try to find someone who's closer to your age. Good Luck

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