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writes:Hello Everyone,I wonder if you could help me please? About 6 months ago I fell for a close friend. We dated for a while but due to heavy workloads we decided to call it a day. The thing is I am still madly in love with him and would love to date him again. I think he likes me too as he is flirt with me. What is the best way to ask him out?Thanks, R.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): I am not an advocate of girls asking guys out, honestly. But I have gotten guys that I really like to ask me out before. That I have done. I just heavily flirt with them, and show them that I really like them. Drop hints that I would like them to ask me out. That's what I usually do when I like a guy, and for the most part it always works.
If I were you I would keep flirting with him and insinuating that you would like to take it further. But I definitely would not come straight out and ask him out or tell him that you are madly inlove with him. No way. I would play the game safe if I were you. Keep it innocent and flirty and wait for him to make a move. He'll get the hint and if he likes you back he will ask you out.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (25 July 2008):
Maybe just be nonchalant about things. Call him up and say something like, "hey long-time-no-see, I thought maybe we could catch up and go to lunch [or something else that's less date-like that you see fit]." Just don't come off desperate and that you're "madly in love with him" as you said. Just keep him guessing. See where that goes and hopefully he'll ask you out on a date.
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