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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy on a night out when I was a bit drunk I'm 23 and hes 27. I’m always louder and more confident when I’ve been drinking and we hit it off. He asked me to meet up again and we got on really well, although he mentioned that he hates introverted people.We went out together a few times after this but sometimes he acted as if he didn’t like my personality and quietness, but contradicted himself sending me a valentines card that said you're perfect and telling me that he really liked me even though he knew I was shy. I didn’t initiate many calls or texts because I wanted to be sure he liked me but he started complaining about that.When I went to stay with him again it was a bit awkward because of me and afterwards we both stopped contacting each other. After a month he messaged me first to ask why I didn’t speak to him anymore. I asked did you want me to speak to you? And he said yes I did…about a month ago. I was a bit annoyed then so didn’t reply and we havnt spoken since.Its been three months now and he deleted me on bbm but I miss him I really liked him and had a lot of fun when we were together. Do you think I should try and speak to him or just let him go as we weren’t right together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): My advise is no. If he doesn't get you the way you are and makes things so complicated when they in fact are not, then it isnt worth it. Im shy myself. When I met my BF i was drunk also! but when we starting dating little by little I learned to trust him and opened up. You need a guy that it's patient and understanding. GOOD LUCK!
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