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writes: I've known this guy for 3 years and we have been having an affair on and off. Our partners found out but we still spoke on the phone and texted each other for a few months after that and then I said I couldn't do it any more. The thing is I miss him so much and want to phone him to see if he wants to see me again and I also want to know if he ever thinks of me.I'm 21. He is 40. We met when I was 18 and he was 37.What do you think I should do? Leave it or phone him?Any advice greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): This isn't a dilemma at all. You know what you should do, so do it. Break up now and go for this other guy. Doesn't matter if he accepts you or not. You should break-up anyway.
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reader, joanna44 +, writes (15 May 2006):
 if your really in love with this man you should end it with your current partner and give it ago with this other man, your obv are mad about him why stick with 2nd best with your current partner and let the love of your life just walk away easily.go for it, what have you got to loose but it is unfair on your currant partner if you are going behinde his back like this.you have to be honest with yourself and him.
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