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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I'm Black and like a White Jewish boy. yep, it isn't as plain as that though. The attraction is mutual and we can't get our hands off of each other. We have a lot in common and always have a great time whenever we're together. The problem is that we can't officially date because of, well, our cultural and religious affiliations. It's unheard of, basically, in society. what do I do? I really like him, plus, he likes me too. What makes it worse is when i see all these Jewish girls all around him... they are like nothing he is. it just angers me how they are allowed to have a chance and I can't... it's not fair. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, pastfirst +, writes (28 January 2009):
I'm so sorry to hear that racial difference still plays a part in the New South Africa.
If you really want to be together, to hell with all the criticism! After all, you're not doing anything illegal! If the people around you cannot accept that we're all equal, they have a problem.
I'm an ex-South African and can't understand why color or religion should play a part in a relationship if it's what both of you want.
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