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writes:I've been dating my girlfriend for over a month now. We've yet to have sex because every time we try, and it seems at least 2-3 times a week, I just can't get my penis to fit inside her.I've tried extra lubricated condoms, I go down on her everytime just to make sure she's wet when the time is ready to go and still nothing will work.Does anyone have any ideas on what I can do? I've never come across this problem with any other girl and she's not a virgin either but she's still very tight.
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reader, rk06 +, writes (25 September 2007):
 I cant really give you an answer. Wish I had that "problem" lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): hmm. I am very tight too so I have had similar experiences. However, it never lasted that long. Usually someway, somehow it goes in, eventually. So I am sure there is hope for you.
Are you pushing in hard enough?? A couple of times my bf had to push in really hard to get it in. I know this sounds like it might be painful but it really isn't. Like, at first, just be patient and try to go inch by inch. And don't pull out. Let whatever you can get in her just sit there for a while so that her vagina can adjust to the size. And then try pushing a little further in. And continue doing this till it is entirely in. And if not you may just have to try to put more force in your push.
Before that you could try fingering her too. Maybe that will give you a better idea of her proportions. And could loosen her more.
And just an added suggestion, I have never tried it but maybe you could try putting some other object in her? Maybe that will loosen her?
But the bottom line is that I think it is biologically impossible for this girl not to be able to take it from your penis. So add more force. And be patient. Don't quit until you get the job done. I gave you a few suggestions that should help. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): I have 2 children and am still tight, I still sometimes struggle with my partner.Are you sure that you arouse her enough? Not meaning to be graphic but the vagina is a muscle and needs to be relaxed to have any chance of anything getting in there without hurting either of you. Try doing something that really excites her, I also have a friend that starts his girlfriend off with a vibrator to get her ready for intercourse, I understand that this isnt for everyone but it might help.
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