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We can't even be friends with benefits any more as he's seeing someone else now!

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Question - (2 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *acyLace writes:

I was dating this guy and i really love him. i lost my virginity to him. we broke up 3 days after we had sex for the first time. its been 3 months and weve been friends with benefits since we broke up. its not good enough for me any more. i know its better than nothing but i want him back. today he told me he's kinda got a girlfriend now but its not official so we cant have the benefits any more. im so jealous! i want him back sooooo bad i cant stand it. i dont know what to do. can anyone help me please?????? im so in love with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

WEell , comeon one of you was going to get a proper partner sooner or later, you shouldn't have allowed yourself to be used when you knew that you weren't going out properly

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009):

Having someone use you is NOT better than nothing....at least if you have nothing (as in no guy) you have the opportunity happiness, with him it's a guarenteed heartache, the only time it does feel good is when you are physically with him.

Learn to love yourself and think so highly of yourself that you won't allow men to treat you this way..then you are on the right path to happiness.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009):

girl soory to tell you this but you were a soft touch, he got what he wanted off you, now hes moved on to another victim. get over him and find someone worthy x

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