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writes:spilt with husband 3 years ago after 6 years of physical abuse, he's down every day to see the 2 kids. he has a new girl every other week and it really hurts that he's getting it so easy, i havent been with anyone in the 3 years weve been apart and i'm a getting very depressed that i'm not going to find anyone, i'm so lonely, i once tried to tell him one time how i was feeling and all i got was that it was my own fault i ended the relationship, so i had no right to be feeling like that, he treats his new girls like princesses, i never got any of that. he says i'm jealous and that i must still love him, i dont but must admit that i am jealous, i cry myself to sleep most nights when i know he is out with a girl, am i still in love with him or am i just turning bitter please help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): always remember those kids are both of yuors i know it must be sad at times but u need to get on with your life treat yourself new underwear outfit and make him do the guessing make sure he has the kids so u can have a nice night out remember there are plenty more fish in the sea and all those different ladies will have there own issuies as well as he has just remember grass not always greener on the other side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): always remember those kids are both of yuors i know it must be sad at times but u need to get on with your life treat yourself new underwear outfit and make him do the guessing make sure he has the kids so u can have a nice night out remember there are plenty more fish in the sea and all those different ladies will have there own issuies as well as he has just remember grass not always greener on the other side.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 December 2009):
You're not in love with him, no. I think you resent the fact that even though he treated you so badly, he has been able to move on without you, leaving you feeling very hurt and abused. I@m sure you are feeling very lonely, but believe me, you're safer without a man who abuses you, no matter what you think. I think you probably need to see a counsellor so you can open up and get all your feelings out, to help you understand them. Focus on your own life now, and your kids. Your ex is part of your life, but you can make him a small part if you are willing to try and build up your esteem again and focus on yourself. All the best.
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