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writes:I know some of you may say this isn't a problem but its getting to be one and a very unconvienent one at that. Me and my husband have been together since we were 16 and have always had a good sex life. I have to admit it has decreased a litte bit over the years but the cuddling and things have never stopped. Just recently not only has our desire for sex has increased but desire for each other. Now normally it wouldn't be a problem but its getting ot the point that we could be out shopping and really just want to have sex so much it gets uncontrolable but its not just the sex if we are out i really get the feeling that i need a cuddle from him and in a busy town centre we can't just stop what we are doing to do those sorts of things. Its happening at home as well and we have been loosing sleep because we have been up all night not always having sex but just being inimate. but seriously its getting out of hand, we both agree because its affecting stuff we do like we are going to work quite tired. Even when hes here like he is now infact he sitting at in the next room watching football i feel like i miss him and need him so badly infact after i've done this i'm going to have to go and sit with him. Its just getting to much. We also have a teenage daughter who we try not to do this stuff around because its something that normally waits till bed time. Sometimes when i have been out on my own i have satrted to feel quite upset because i just need to feel him there. Anyway i think you get the picture by now but really it is becoming a problem how can we resist this its taking over is there something we could do just so we can get through the day being apart like when we are at work or something. its like i miss him when hes even here. Please help its taking over me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Hi Hunny,I no just what you mean ive just got up an hr ago as ive had 3 nights of no sleep, I havent been with my partner as long as you but I do understand the feelings your going through, I have to send my fiance to his own home on occation as I would be a zombie.You need to find a interest apart from him love as tasty as he may be, I really dont no what to say about the evening times as if your in the same bed then its just asking for trouble but you cant get him to sleep elsewere and Im with you on the tiredness.Its lovely that you and your husband feel this way for each other just try and get some sleep love as you no he will still be there when you wake up, My son thinks my fiance and I are in need of help only in the sleeping department I feel, and as soon as Ive finished this Im going to jump on mine so maybe my advise is not the best. I no how you feel, just send him out more often hun and get some rest take care love MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Sounds like you're co-dependent or something.
Maybe it is manifesting itself in a pretty fun-seeming way, but it still IS a little unhealthy to be so totally unable to be apart at all for even short times without emotional problems.
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