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writes:I've been internet dating for a couple of months and find it good fun..there are lots of guys there who are only looking for sex, which you can normally find out within the first 10 mins of having a conversation. I've been talking with this guy who's really cute, we've talked for about 5 hrs altogether and will be meeting up next week. His conversation has become rather suggestive when we were last on line and he has made it quite clear that he's got the hots for me.... any suggestions on what I can do to cool things down a bit and make sure he's not chasing me for just sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (18 November 2007):
 If it's the type of site where people tend to meet up for no strings sex or whatever then you have to expect that that's what he is going to be expecting.
If it is a genuine dating site, then if he expects to jump into bed with you on the first date, you have met the wrong man - no matter how hot and funny and likeable and perfect he may seem , if he trys to get into your pants on the first date then you can only blame yourself if you fall for it.
You shouldnt have to "cool" him down, if he is a nice guy then he should respect your choice of friendship first sex later. If you hook up with him at the first go, then dont be disappointed if he moves onto the next conquest shortly thereafter.
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