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female
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41-50,
*pumie
writes: Good day! Me an my bf we always fight about calling each other. My problem I that if I don't have airtime he will complain about not calling and he always complain about that when he is at work whereby their using free airtime. I always buy airtime and I'm the one who always call him but if I don't have there must be a problem.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (9 June 2012):
Wow. Well this situation needs to be resolved quickly because I'm sure neither of you would want to breakup over the lack of calling. And from what I gather in your post, I think your boyfriend needs to consider the fact that you have to buy time to speak to him- and he has the luxury of using a phone with free time at work or somewhere else. Maybe you two can set up a call schedule. You also should speak about ways you two can be a bit more consistent with your calls. I'm not sure how often you see you boyfriend, but communication from each one of you should be made a priority.. especially if you don't see/speak to him all that often. If you two really want to be with each other, then sit down and have a serious conversation with him about how you can work on this issue- so it doesn't continue to affect your relationship. Best!
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