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writes: I'm 21 and my partner is 25. We have a 15 month son together and live together. All we do is argue, though not in front of the baby, as I grew up around that myself and can't let it happen. We just dont get on at all. I want my child's dad around but it's just not working. We dont have a sex life either and recently I have been attracted to other people but have not done anything about it. We just can't agree on anything. We have been together 4 years and I'm thinking are we just together out of habit? We have fell out before and I missed him but also I was happier. Please can anyone give me some useful advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2005): I am haveing the SAME problem myself. MY boyfriend and I hav been together for 4 yrs, as well. We have a beautiful 13 month old girl. We have no sexual contact with each other and I don't even think i am sexually attracted to him. I have been told by MANY people to tell him how i feel and end it now so we are civil for the baby's sake. Problem is, I feel so comfortable where I am , it's so hard to move on. Especially because of the baby. I KNOW i should leave, but i still haven't. All I can tell you is to be true to yourself and follow your heart. Things WILL work out, eventually, whether you are with him or not.
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