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writes: Hey people!! I love my bf alot but im actually attracted to his best friend (who is going out with MY Best friend) more then i am to him.My boyfriend never seems to want to properly kiss me. I never kiss him properly cos he doesnt seem to want to, hes forever kissing me on the back of the head and on my cheek but never on the lips.When me and my boyfriend spend time together we have a great time, but im not actually pretty, im actually horrendously ugly in my opinion, and although my mates say im pretty im always insecure about how i look and how i act. Im always constantly worried about if i smudged my eyeliner or mascara, or if my foundation is showing or i have makeup lines, or if my foundation has rubbed off or anything like that, then i catch sight of myself in a mirror and go home cos i dont like it.I frequently catch people staring in the streets and it just makes me feel sick i didnt think i was that ugly. Help me with these problems :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): Reebee thanks for the advice :D
Problem is i got spots so im definitely wearing the concealer lol.
I wont do anything with J :D
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Most be people of your age feel like this and I'm sure you are not ugly, it sounds like you wear alot of make up, try wearing a little less like no foundation at least that will give you one less thing to worry about if your not wearing any, as it won't be on your clothes and you won't have a make up line,your boyfriend seems to like you! Just because he won't kiss you on the lips doesn't mean he doesn't want to, he probably isn't sure what you want, the next time you 2 are alone together then place a peck on his lips and see what he does. I wouldn't think of doing anytihng with this other boy at your age friends are way more important than any guy and your best friend may never forgive you so thats just not worth it!
Relax a little and in time you will realise you were worried about your looks for nothing!
Good Luck!
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