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We can be happy, but we fight a lot, too. Does this mean we aren't meant to be together?

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Question - (14 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ntheway writes:

I have been with the same guy for three and a half years, and most of the time we are happy. Sometimes we have these massive fights however, and they can end in a "break up" (which doesn't last) or just a break. We have had two proper breakups which have lasted up to a year.

The fights we have are over silly things, I think we are both quite stubborn and unwilling to change. But sometimes I wonder if its because were really just not meant to be together at all... A lot of the time we make each other so happy, but why do things keep on going wrong? Does it mean that were just not meant to be together?

I love him, but i'm so confused.

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (15 April 2007):

Midge agony auntCouples always fight. Its an age old tradition, but its what the fights are about that matters. If its a trust or honesty issue, forget it and move on. If you've tried a few times to get back together over trust or honesty issues, it just isnt gonna happen.

If your arguements are over silly things that are of no material consequence, then I suggest the two of you see a councillor and make things work.

Most couples sometimes need a little "time out". It makes them think straight without the added pressure of having to deal with their partner at the same time.

However, if you are wanting to make a go of things with him, then you need to figure out a way of dealing with you both being so stubborn waiting for the other to apologize, which never happens! A councillor will be able to advise you on this point!

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