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female
age
41-50,
*lovemyhusband
writes:My husband wants to leave me for his ex!My husband has an ex girlfriend that he dated when she was just 14-18 and I guess from what he says,they had alot of good memories together and also some bad one's. My husband and I have been together for almost 9yrs, this September and married for 3 yrs this July, we have a kid together and from what I thought, we had a pretty good relationship. We still have sex and said we loved eachother almost everyday, he would tell his friends and others just how much of a good woman I am and how lucky he is to have me, but then this happened! He found his ex by looking on another website and wrote to her with his phone number. She called back and now they talk about they want to get back together. She also is married and has a kid, and at first she tried to tell him that he should move on, because she did, but when my husband said fine then, let's end this now, she stopped him and said no, I don't want to do that. He already hurt my feelings and I am confused about why he wants her back. I love him so much, please help.
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reader, elsie  +, writes (16 April 2007):
 first let me say how i sympathize with you.this must be a very hard time.i dont like the fact that your husband went on this website in the first place.what was he really looking for?ask him what it is that he wants from her that you havent got already.sounds like maybe hes one of the many men who gets too comfortable and hate to say it but maybe hes a little bit bored.it will take a lot of strength but i couldnt have a man in my home who didnt know if he wanted me or not.i suggest he goes and stays somewhere else.dont lose contact and tell him you need to be able to get in touch whenever you need to.hes being selfish by acting like this.what on earth does he think this is going to do to the relationship even if he never has a phone or computer again???good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): He seems to be uncertain about this feelings. Maybe he loves you both,and maybe he never really gotten over her.But he made a commitment to you in the presence of God. He tells everyone how good you are.You need to have a serious talk with him about this. Don't be angry when you talk, but ask him what he really wants and tell him how mluch you love him. Ask him what will happen to you and your daughter ?? I think that really that he is inlove with you but is just excited that he is wanted by someone else also, it makes him feel good about himself. He has to change his phone number and stop any communication with her. He needs to respect you and respect your feelings.I would say talk about it.
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