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writes: My boyfiend dumped me after 4 months because i wasn't giving him enough space. 2 days later i went on to a dating site.i honestly had no intention of meeting up with anyone or even looking for someone else. my ex then told me he missed me and wanted us to try and sort things out (but we didnt get back together).I told him i had been on a dating site but i didnt want to hurt him and tell him i had spoken to people. He then found out i had sent and received messages to someone although we didnt meet and the intention wasnt even there.He is now upset with me and he says i have cheated on him (even though we werent together while i was on the site and i deleted my profile after i had told him).He is also hurting about the fact that i lied to him about speaking to people on it even though at the time i didnt want to hurt him any more than i already had.He doesn't trust me anymore which i can undersatnd and he says he doesn't know if he wants to keep trying to work things out.I truly love him but he cannot believe this as he feels that as i went on a dating site 2 days after breaking up i wasnt bothered about us splitting up ( i was absolutely devastated).i would do anything to make things right and make it up to him so please please please i would appreciate any advice to help him understand i dont want anyone else and it's only him i love.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
 dear reader. i think you need to talk to him and tell him you was just on the rebound which you probably was if you really do love him you need to look at the reasons why you had split in the first place weigh it all up and then you'll know what to do if he still doesn't trust you and accuses you of cheating still then it might be his way of not wanting to work things out after allgood luck hope this gets sorted soon xxx
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