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writes: HeyI'm a little confused about my feelings.Theres someone I like, he likes me back, and although I've never met him I know him through a real-life friend, and we're 'online-dating'.The problem is, we don't exactly argue, but sometimes he gets mad for no reason or doesn't really talk to me. Most of the time he's really nice and compliments me, but we don't really TALK like friends.One argument we had was about this other girl who he talks to. I accused him of cheating with her, and he got really angry, which made ME feel upset. He promised he wasn't but I didn't know whether to believe him - and then he got mad because I didn't. I just want to please him but at the same time I want to feel secure.I don't see why he can't be like his other friends. They're friendly and chatty, generally nice to talk to.I've tried confronting him about this but he keeps thinking I want us to split up. I don't, I... think, because he can be SO nice sometimes, he makes me feel really special, and besides - he's really really hot. =)When he comes online I dread it, because I start to feel sick. I have no idea why. Sometimes I'm just glad when he goes offline. I don't get butterflies, but my stomach does churn. I like it when he's nice to me and it's made my life seem a little better recently, but... It's hard to explain. I wish he'd just never existed, 'cause I don't want to break up or regret the break up. But at the same time, I don't really want to stay with him. Or... should I?I'm really confused, so ANY help would be appreciated!Thanks so much!xxx
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):
 dear reader you are in a mess eren't you.first of all have you ever met this guy?secong of all online relationships never seem to work you never know what the other person is doing behind your back for one you don't seem very certain whether you like this guy or not may-be its time to have experianced this and now meet someone you can meet up with be open and a little less confused about how you feeli think you need to find out exactly what hye wants from you and this relationship before you make any rash decisions good luck and be carefull i hope it all works out xxx
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