We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?

A female age 30-35, *ubbly! writes:

Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that he loves me and that he needs me and wants me, thing is.. he asked me to get naked on cam and i told him i wasnt ready so he asked if i didnt trust him, and i said yes i do, but i dont feel comfortable doing it, so we got into a great fight and broke up.- =( =( bcause i asked him, if i dont get naked then u dont think there's a chance for us? and he said "ii dont know" woooooooow that hurts!, plz someone tell me if i did right! bsides i think it wouldnt have work, cuz he lives in libya and i live in the caribbean so it would've been too difficult and he also scares me bcause he says that he wants to move with me and that he wants to be with me forever, and i've only known him for a week, I AM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!

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