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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi i will try to keep this short! basically after 4years together my ex decide he wasn't in love with me and broke up then moved away. his mother told me the fact he was in debt was a major factor. for a while things after the breakup were messy between us and we haven't spoken in 6months. pathetic as it seems i am still in love with him and feel he is my soulmate. have just learnt from his myspace page that he is home for the summer and single.should i email him to let him know i know he's home and hopefully establish some contact with a view to getting back together or should i just avoid going out in town this summer and go elsewhere? its a very small place and we would prob bump into each other and i cant cope with seeing him on the pull
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 May 2007):
Being in debt brings its own problems. He was probably under a lot of stress at the time which could have been one of the contributing factors to your break up. You obviously still have feelings for him so yes, I would email him. Keep it light, just say hi and say you heard he was back in town, how is he keeping etc etc. If he's still interested or if his situation has changed and he has managed to get his debt organised then I'm sure he'll reply to you.
Hey, you have nothing to lose right?
Eve
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