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writes: I know this question is a book and a half, but please I need your advice you can e-mail me directly and not post my question if it is to long.please. I’m 21 years of age and have been in a well, serious relationship for the last two and a half years. I can honestly say I really truly and unconditionally love the guy so very much that it scares the heck out of me. So here is my misfortunate situation and I really don’t know how to go form here. He left me 3 days ago so I’m still very emotional about this. I really love him and don’t want to lose him. I understand that we are both still very young and settling down is the last thing I want to do. Our relationship was long distance for one and a half years and he only moved closer to me two weeks ago. In the same sentence that he tells me he does not think we are compatible any more he tells me that I am the best thing that ever happened in his life and that he really loves me and he always will. I am so confused and I’m hurting. So I gave him the option to think about it before he walks out completely. Now the real problem (this was just a bit of back round): This is not the first time, we are now standing at breakup number four. Previously we always worked it out and I always begged and crawled. This time round I decided not to (I set him free) in other words. So what if he comes back? Do I take him back because I love him and because he loves me and then a couple of months later he does it again or do I cut al ties with him while I’m still hurting to make it easier for me to get over him? My mind set is I can’t just let this 2year go as if nothing happened because to me (as the Beatles put it so lovely) “Love is all you need”. Please help…
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Pica Thank you for your advise. I have all the signs that it is over I just needed someone to make it a reality for me...I will get the book. Thanks again.
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reader, pica +, writes (6 November 2006):
There's a book "It's Called a Break-up Because It's Broken" by Greg Behrendt & Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt which contains a lot of good advice. I'd say get hold of it if you can. Sorry, but I think serial breaking-up is a sign that you're not well matched, for whatever reason.
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