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*orkieKrazed
writes:My boyfriend and I had been together for 3years and 7months, and a week ago, he told me, look, our lease is up and i dont want to rent another place with you. I dont love you anymore. He said he is sick of being put on time restrictions and not being allowed to go to his friends. Well, now that we have been apart for a week, I have come to realize that I had been so mean and controlling of him. I am so willing to fix it and prove to him by moving back in with him, that I can treat him the right way.He really hasnt talked to me at all, and when he does, he sounds angry! Is he trying to put on a manly front?? He said today, that I need to give him space. And I said, I am afraid if I don't talk to you for a few days you will forget about me.I just want to drive over there and hug him, but I know he would get upset... HELP!! What can I do to fix this even when he is being a jerk?!?!?!?
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reader, YorkieKrazed +, writes (17 February 2007):
YorkieKrazed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSee, I'm not one to give up. He still cares about me, and who wouldnt after being together for so long? Basically, I am reading and studying about controlling issues and turning myself around. I want him to know he is the world to me and I can do anything for him. I told him I am waiting for him to let me and our pup come home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Simply leave him alone. As well as controlling him you won't give him the space he needs from you and this will only make him resent him more. It is going to be hard to let go of him but what else can you do now. Please do not make him start hating you. Pull yourself together, keep yourself occupied and do try and move on.
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