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*LONSO80
writes: Hi Me and my ex GF broke up in the beginning of February. We were together for about 6 months prior, until one day she decided she wanted some "space" I knew she wanted to break up but let me down easy, since I always treated her good. The reason she gave is she was a little bit overwhelmed and asphixiated by me. I said fine and we didnt speak for about 6 weeks. By middle of april she sends me a text message, wanting to know what I was doing with my life, the following days we chat online almost everynight. She tells me that the true reason for the break up with me was that her former BF was coming back from deployment overseas, and that she really missed him after not seeing him for about 3 years, and that she didn't want to hurt my feelings by coming back to him while we were dating. and they have been going out for about a month now. I said it was ok now and I didnt care at that stage, since I was trying to move on with my life.we stop talking for about a week and we chat online again. She starts reminding that the sex we had was great and that she really missed me in bed. I'm not gonna lie I really liked this girl a lot, and to this day it still hurts that she broke up with me. that night we talked for about 4 hours, and I just gave in to my desire, I went to her house and we had sex. she was still going out with the army guy but this time she said little about him. Since april we've been having sex at least once a week. But she says she doesn't want to try it again with me. I admit I've been weak just last nite we did it again, but I want to let this girl go, but I just can't
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reader, sofia30 +, writes (15 June 2009):
shes bacially using you by the sounds of things!
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