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writes: Hello In my last situation, I talked about how my boyfriend was using me, well he called me on febuary 9th and asked me to come over as usual. I gave him a very sarcastic answer and was like "Sure I will come I will be there in a few minutes" now this was the last time I ever heard from him I decided I was just going to say we must be broke up. But I just feel so mad that there was no closure. I mean he didn't call me on valentines day, and I didn't call him on his birthday which was febuary 18th I think me and him are over but the fact it isn't offical makes me mad. But I have already moved on and have started talking to other guys am I wrong for doing this????? and why do you think he dumped me the way he did???? do you think me and him are over for good?????
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 February 2007):
I must admit I don't remember your last situation but it sounds to me like even before allt his stuff happened you weren't treating each other very well. It seems to me that him not speaking to you on Valentines Day and you not speaking to him on his birthday is reason enough to assume that you're broken up. I guess you could say it's his fault there's no closure but I'm betting he's thinking the same thing about you. It doesn't really matter whether you two are over for good or not, only that you should be. It doesn't sound like there's any love or respect left in your relationship and as such maybe it's time you both move on, with or without the closure.
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