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anonymous
writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years im 21 and he is 25 and we have broken up 3 times all done by me. He is a great bloke but i just got bored as he is quiet, but sometimes we get on great. We broke up for a week recently and i went out on afew dates and loved the excitement. But i ended up getting back with my ex again...and now im wondering if it was the right thing to do. He booked us to go Paris next weekend so he is def a good bloke who is romantic and loving...what should i do? is this normal becoz im young and have been with him for awhile?
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (14 August 2008):
I don't think you are ready for any kind of relationship at the moment. You don't 100% sure of what you want and you keep messing this poor guy's head breaking up getting back breaking up getting back.
Do yourself a favour and be by yourself for a while, until you can make your mind what you want. That poor young man cannot switch his feelings on and off like a light switch, do the decent thing and let him find a nice young lady who will love him with whatever flaws he has. He does not deserve to be treated like a fair weather lover.
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (14 August 2008):
We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to love imperfect person perfectly.
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