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*uaris
writes:Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months ok? We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Even some teachers told me this! However one night after getting into an argument over sex we had a mutual break-up. The argument was actually becuz earlier that night I asked if we could go all the way to which she said no which I was absolutely okay with. It was only until later in the night when I was taking her home and she told me she wished we WOULD have fooled around did I start an argument. I never thot we would break up its just me and her are virgins and she had told me b4 she wanted to lose her's to me and I wanted mine to be for her so when it didnt work out I temporarily got mad. Well Ive asked her to forgive me multiple times and Im currently going to see a psychologist about some depression issues as well next week. Even thru all this pleading and extreme attempt at change she will not talk to me at school when only a week ago we were INSEPARABLE. The only contact we have is when she pokes or pushes me playfully in the hall but shes just a nice person like that and probably only does it to keep me from feeling too bad after my heartfelt apology letters. I really need her back shes the greatest thing that has ever happened to me and if that means we will have to abstain from sex for the next 20 years I am willing to because she is the most amazing human being I have ever met and it is not only me but everyone else who knows us and our personalities and backgrounds that see this fact too. I really need help. How do I at least start being her freind again. I mean, if I cant be the romantic guy in her life I still care enough to help her through any bad times in her life, even as just a friend because I will do anything to keep this girl as happy as I can, however I can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Awww that's so sweet I wish my bf would say that stuff bout me.
Like claire said, do little stuff to touch her heart. Roses, flowers...I think letters would pobably work the best. Let her know what you made so plain to us. You love her, and at least want to be friends.
I really really hope it works out for you guys!
Missaleigh xx
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (18 January 2009):
Expound on the letter you posted, coupled with flowers and a box of candy (chocolate). Hand it to you at her house, and you should be back in business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): your really sweet, and even a fool could see that you care about her, she's upset, but you guys have obviously not had many fights, if something like this lead to a break up. be romantic, go to her house one night, go down on one knee with a bouquet of a dozen roses, 1 being pure white, and a note saying she is the only one that stands out in your eyes, and a box of chocolates. and if you guys were inseparable, then she cant just not have n e feelings for u because of 1 SILLY fight, in time, she will forgive and forget, but you need to realize that this hurt her deeply, but there is still hope, be a gentleman, be nice, and things will work out, when she is poking or punching u, stop her lightly with your hand and try to talk, maybe itll work, but remember, tell her you'll do what she wants. she she wants sex, you would every night, if she wants to wait, tell her years could never change the way thst you feel about her. its not a big deal, hopefully, this will just roll over, and everything will go back to normal
Good Luck!
Claire
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