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writes:HelloI work in a fruit shop and my employers friend from school is my ex boy friend of five weeks, the reason that we broke up is that one day when i was feeling low after working another day in the fruit shop, we met up for a drink and my ex boyfriend asked me what was wrong and i told him the truth as i thought it was time he knew what his friend was like to work for, i told him that he was rude, nasty, sarcastite, mean, moody, not only to me and others who work for him but also with the customers, my ex boy friend would not belive me, he said that he did not belive me, not a word of it, but as he has now found out from somebody else about his friend being what he really is, my ex boy friend wants us to get back together, but what has up set me when we broke up is that my ex boy friend would not belive me and i decided that we should finish being together and told my ex boy friend that i could not be with someone who did not want to belive what i told him, my ex boy friend has now enlisted his sister who keeps on telling me that i wont find anybody better than her brother, i dont know what to do, as my ex boy friend can be moody, and i wonder if he was like this when we broke up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): If he wants to get back with you, tell him how hurt you were on the reason you broke up, tell him the truth , if your ex-boyfriend has moods, try to help him with these bad times, if he wont say sorry, say goodbye and get some body else and tell him why you dont want to be together with him anymore.
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
 If you don't mind his moods, then I say give him another chance. You were taking quite a risk being so forthright about his longtime friend, and it doesn't surprise me too much that he reacted badly. Of course it wounded you that he believed his friend rather than you, but friendship bonds go pretty deep. Be generous toward him and give him another chance. Don't let your ruffled feelings get in the way if you think he's a good man, and if he's a good companion to you.
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