A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am basically really messed up right now! I was going out with my ex for over 2 yrs and then he went away for a year and is still away, we broke up and he started seeing another girl, then when he came back home for a month we both still really liked each other, but said we would wait and see wot happened when he got back which is in June. However he then told me he was still in love with me and that he definitely wanted to get back together. However after an argument we had, he changed his mind and he is now back with this other girl. The only thing is every week or so we will speak on Skype and we talk for about an hour and then always end up, doing sexual things over webcam. I really don't know what to do!Please can someone help.....is he just confused and will he come back to me or should i just stop lookin waiting around for him?
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reader, nologo +, writes (16 April 2007):
Even if he is confused, probably he will not be with you.
I would rather advise you to stop waiting around for him.
As to the things happening between you two every week or so, the decision must be up to you.
If you are ready to dump him right away, then cut off all contacts and cross him out.
Another option is to confront him and start an argument about seeing another girl.
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