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writes:Okay .. Umm so me and my boyfriend had a fight the other night and it turned out to be pretty nasty unfortunately we both were hell mad at each other and were being really selfish. In the end he was like "lets end it here only", I said "if that what you want then fine we are done" and he hung up on me. I was expecting his call but he hasnt called or texted ever since. Moreover, he deleted me from his friends list and changed all his account's passwords. I feel so pathetic about it. My sister spoke to him casually today and he asked about me though he hasnt texted or called yet. What do I do ? I'm really missing him like anything. But I dont wanna sound clingy by initiating contact again and more so because he broke up with me ..Please help
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (10 October 2011):
 Sound to me like it's over. WHY would you expect him to call after that?????
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (9 October 2011):
 Why do you expect him to contact you?
You had a very serious fight with him; he said he wanted to end it, and you agreed.
If now you're regretting what happened, your best bet is, as the other aunts have said, to give him a few weeks time and space. Don't try to contact him.
If after a month or two of no contact, you could try calling him to say you'd like to see if things can be worked out. If he agrees, great, but if not, you'll just have to accept that it's over.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 October 2011):
 If you want to try to patch it up you will have to contact him... it may work or he may really be done.. only he knows whether he's waiting for you to contact him or he's really done...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 Give him time and space so he comes up with his own conclusion that the relationship is worth continuing. A void works wonders for guys. It makes him misses you. Throughout the relationship gift him with mini break ups, he would appreciate. I am not saying this out of spite but because I know this is how some men are.
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