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writes: HI I really need help. My ex bf and i used to go out for almost 4 year. we broke up in 2004 but recently started seein each other again. He told me he loved me out of the blue ... and that he always has loved me and always thinks about me. anyways 1night he stayed over at mine and he started talking about us growing up and how he wanted to have kids with me and a nice house. Everthing was going great but i didnt know if i was still just "seeing him or we we a couple again" so when he left i txt him to ask what was happening with us. He txt back and said he wasnt ready for a relationship and that he did really love me and ( of cousre he loves me) im total confused. He now says there is no point in meeting up if nothings going to happen between us... but hes the one thats stopping anyhtingt happening. I feel soo alone and dont know what to do. I still see him at training 4days a week we chat alittle but not much or properly. I think im depressed because i think about him 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night i really need help. should i forget about him or does he just need time. I really dont know as i was fine just seing him but hes the one that brought love back into the equation and now i really want him back please help x :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for your advice il let you know what happens :) thanks again xx
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 dear reader. its very hard to get back into a broken long term thingi would say he does need time but you really need to talk to him about this you need to tell him exactly how you feel if he does love you you'll find a way to sort it out. you should feel very lucky that it was a bloke telling you he still loves you after splitting up that doesn't happen very often so you know he at least has a heart and does feel something. i do strongly recomend you sit him down and talk though before it ends up you both not speaking to eachother if it is going to end you don't want it to be on a bad note. don't feel depressed just open up to him you'll find answers look at it this way if you don't expect too much all the good things that will happen will all be worth while ah.
i hope things get sorted out be brave and get it all off your chest sooner rather then later though
good luck xxx
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