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writes: i am 18 she is 17 and save me form being stuped i bin going out with a gf for 4 1/2 months,we live 2 hour apart and see every week or so and more when it was summer we stay over each over for 2 days.but two night ago we broke up as we love each over but over the ditance when we could not see each over it hurting and we fight or worry we talk for a hor each night.we trying to sort it out now but in a day we both of us cheat just makeing out but i did it to 3 people and she did it to one and if she did not text i would have had a 3 some i cryed dont ever do that!so glad she did as is if there a chance for us i will fight for it. so do you think i should keep trying and meet up this satday and heal things over. we like each over for 6 months before going out and i never told any one in my life that i love them apart from her (family) and she lost her v with me and she never use to say it much to people! so we really close she dump her bf for me i made her wait 2 months. so we really are in love.will be given up to be less pain full for her if i give up now,as i want her to be happy as that make me happy plz help dont now what to ask but any advise would helpwe where sorry for what we did she keep crying and we said no more till we meet and i keep tell i want her i think
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 November 2006):
You're soooooo young and enjoy the breaking up and makingup more than learning tolove each other as people. You cheated because it was a way to make each other angry and then get the making up. Thats the best part isnt i because when u make up, it feels like heaven kissing and cuddling promising never to do it again because it causes you both hurt and you feel bad.
Take a long break but keep in contact by text and phone. You will then realise if both of you want to be together or willmeet new people. being in love means you dont play games,cause pain and anger.Its about learning to love, laugh and share the silliest things and giving each other space to grow as individuals.
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