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writes:I met this guy at work last year, we went out, had a couple of dates, and both had strong feeling on each other. However things have been changed because he has decided to move to another city, and we stopped our relationship becoz we both thought long distance won't work to us. Well, he actually tells me if he didn't move we could have a future but not any more because of the 'long distance'. We are still friends, emailing, texting each other; My question is, I want him back but it's impossible at the stage to move due to my job. If you were me, what would you do? or do I have to take this as 'he is just not that into me?'
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Hi im in a similar situation, met a guy at work, crazy about eachother then he moved away. We still keep in touch and I have visited him in his new city BUT like you, although he cares about me he is just not into a long distance thing! I have cried alot over it and I really believe that if he wanted it to work it could. But although he cares, he just doesnt care enough!!
I will keep in touch with him but am also making an effort to meet someone new. I really think you should do the same. If you have spoken with him and he is just not willing to put in the effort then I think you should let it go. You deserve a guy who will move mountains to be with you.
Good luck xx
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reader, Trinny  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 If i was you i would carry on keeping in touch because if you didn't you might never know what would happen further down the line. Long distance relationships can work if you want them to. Keep him interested in you by sending him reminders of what you look like and how much you miss him. If your love is strong for him and you will find away to be with him.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hi
There is no reason why you both cant have a long distance relationship,If you both really love each other and are determined enough then you should try that out. You should also realize that being in a long distance relationship involves lots of hard work.You also have to be very committed. If you are to persue this relationship,how would you see each other?
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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