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female
age
41-50,
*kele
writes: Hi, I have a boyfriend, we been seeing each other for 3 years now and he had a relationship before we met. I have 1 child with him and he has 1 child with another girl, they stayed together when we met, 5 months back they were not together because this girl was cheating on him and he moved to my place and I just found out that they are not back together, the man is still staying with me. Does this man love me or does he love that girl? I don't know what to think and say now I am confused, I really love him so much. please advice. thanks Anonymous
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This man does not really love either of you. If he loved her, he would not be cheating on her with you. And if he loved you, he would not have still been dating her while he was with you. It is not about her OR about you. So the good news is that he doesn't love her. But the bad news is he doesn't love you either.
There are MANY good guys in the world who will love you and treat you good and not make you doubt them EVER. But if you keep dwelling on this guy, who is not worth your time, you will never meet them.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): We will need more information to advise. Details, etc.
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