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writes: There is this girl who I know really likes me and I really like her as well but I know she is very experienced with boys, not in an over the top way but I know she has done a lot more than me. I would like to go out with her but am worried she will want to go too far. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (14 April 2005):
Take it easy... The first step is to date her. You might find that after the date, she's not what you thought and you remain friends. Its the same for girls as it is for boys... if you get on really well and have dated a few times, and things go further than you wanted then just say to her, you would rather carry on dating a while. If she is really keen on you and you click really well then she will be happy to wait. If she gets pushy and sulky then shes not worth it. To go further with someone... Im guessing by that you mean "sex"? Or maybe just general petting, then both parties need to be happy about it, or it doesnt work. First off enjoy a date and take if from there, it could just be your nerves that are getting in the way here. Just have fun and see where it leads, just dont do anything you dont want to do, and if she really likes you too she will understand.
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