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writes: my husband and i often argue i ask him to leave but he says i should leave or he wont, the house belongs to the both of us. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): Your question is a little vague..so I'm assumming you want him to leave permantely? Its difficult if the house is in both of your names as you both have "rights" to the home which is considered by law as a Matrimonial Home. You really can't make him leave, or visa-versa. I would suggest when you have had a heated arguement, you should locate to a different room and wait until things cool down. Then when you are both cooled off try and discuss things rationally.
I hope this has helped you a bit.
Good Luck
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reader, markkav +, writes (11 January 2006):
Why don't you two sit down and work through why you argue? Instead of running around making things ten times worse for both of you. You will both regret it. You currently have alot of tension,heat,and anger between you, and are thinking out of the ordinary. You have worked hard to get that house. Selling it or moving out is not the solution, unless it is the last straw. You both sound very head strong, and neither one of you want to back down. This is where you might need to consider counseling.Take it from me, I was in the same boat. Go and get help it worked for me. Even if he doesn't want to straight away, at least you're making the attempt to save this, and work on it rather than give up and move out. If you still love each other, then agree together to get HELP now. Good luck!
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