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We argue about our friends!

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Question - (11 June 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2006)
A female , *endiep writes:

Well, I am in love with a very cute guy who is a student in the country I live in, which is England, so we've known each other for some time now. For the first months after we met things were very nice for us, we used to be conservative about sex coz we wa both virgins. We used to hug in public, kiss and even cuddle with no worries.

After some months we had sex and although it was hard getting him erect we soon got the pace and we got a nice sex life... now, something is almost harming us. We get arguing at anything on our way. We argued in my boys friends and I couldn't sleep. I was stressed up and he suggested and said that we should stick to our respective friends e.g. I cant meet his friends and he can't meet mine anymore to avoid arguments which lead to embarrassment. Is this right??

I'm totally confused on whether a relationship without much appreciation for the woman will work easily. Please advise me. I am torn apart. Should I hold on and ignore the arguments which come back day in day or should we try to avoid much closeness which will lead to normal friendship, which is hard coz our love to each other? thanks wendie

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A female reader, wendiep +, writes (11 June 2006):

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wendiep agony auntSibaan thats a cute advice i highly appreciate that coz i have friends whom we have known eachother for 6years and for my boyfriend we've known each other for about a year and so my friends have a right to know the person i get close with as u said ...

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A female reader, sibaan +, writes (11 June 2006):

sibaan agony auntguys have to socialise with eachothers friends its the only way to really get to know each other. your friends know you better then anyone and therefore need to see the person your getting so close to.

dont let this come between you, try and find a compromise.

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